LOVE. the greatest mystery of all times. many attempt to decipher the meaning of love, the true feeling of love. However, all had different thoughts,opinions and definitely, feelings. but can we truly know what we felt was love? what we had, have and have been having is really love? sadly, no one does, cause when you’re in, you’re in.theres no way out as one might say.
many have the experience of loving. but what made you love? the appearance? physical attractiveness?similarity?reciprocal liking? What exactly make you feel in love. and when you thought you are in love, one thing happened and that one thing could be taking away all these ‘love’ in a blink of an eye. and in a second, you felt that he/she might not be the one. theres someone whom i crave for. much more.
others or most might see this as being a flirt. but, when its gone its gone. you slowly discover the real reason for loving another or for not loving your supposedly one now. is it the compability? the loss of mutual feelings? the chemistry or the acknowledgement that both have of one another? and the reason for loving another might not be cause ‘he/she is better’. in fact. he could be worse but he might be everything you are looking for.
pertaining to Vertical Horizon’s “Everything you want”, your supposedly one might be or have everything you wished your true one had. maybe the look? the way he/she carries herself/himself? or maybe just the things he/she does for you. but these might not matter when you look in closer and deeper. you might realise that having someone with all these qualities might not necessary be your one. the one you really want. it all adds up to the individual.
and so, after this short post to clear my confused and messed up mind, i took a clearer meaning to the word, LOVE. there are plenty and its a blessing to have many. the love between friends, lovers and of course, family is strong and can never be broken. maintaining it might be tough for some but the future with them would definitely be worth it. a lovers love might not neccesary be requited but the journey and feeling of it would definitely last you a lifetime even when you go and get yourself married and have kids.
signing off with a last note, to be loved is a blessing but never forget, loving others is also one. ;D
credits:
*http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interpersonal_attraction”
“Vertical Horizon’s song”